Imagine a careless bum and a high maintenance babe crossing paths.
The bum makes a tragic try at conversation with her by saying,
“Hello. My name is Jack and I am homeless. Let me tell you about how I became on the streets.”
Chances are, she’d have no curiosity and scurry off because she finds him aesthetically repulsive, possibly scary, and of little value.
But if he fired an open loop at her, such as, “You know what they say about women with green eyes?” he would almost certainly spark unresolved tension in her body.
She’d feel a urge for emotional closure. Closure only he has the power to bring her.
And bada bing, bada boom…
This vagabond she normally would never give the time of day to piques her interest and has value (or Prizability) in her eyes.
Furthermore, open loops can build sexual excitement…
When you spark emotional tension within the circumstance of flirting with a woman on adultfrienedfinder it becomes sexualized in her body.
But there’s an aspect of open loops I haven’t mentioned yet…
It’s called the “Zeigarnik effect.”
One of the early contributors to Gestalt psychology Bluma Zeigarnik noticed that waiters remember orders up until they serve the food. Then they forget.
This led to the breakthrough that the brain retains the most information when a loop is open.
How does this help you?
Everything you tell a woman between opening up a loop and closing it, she probably will remember.
I want to share with you a powerful function of open loops I learned from watching politicians…
Oftentimes, when politicians are asked a question, they skirt around it for several minutes, talking about almost irrelevant topics, before honestly addressing it.
This keeps the listener in suspense.
How can we relate this to seduction and attraction?
Here’s an example…
When most men meet a woman they utter their name and then shake the woman’s hand. Usually that’s it. The interaction is over.
Chances are… after an hour or so elapses, she won’t memorize his name or anything about him.
Instead, when a woman asks me my name I use an open loop.
I might say…
“When I was a kid my mom told me that she and my dad initially named me Arete, which means all the traits that make up someone with good personality.
And I said, ‘Wow, mom… that’s awesome!
Why didn’t you keep the name?’
And she said, ‘Well honey, you’re lucky we didn’t name you Arete because it’s the name of a goddess from Greek folklore. But we didn’t really give a crap about you having a female name. The real reason we didn’t name you Arête was that our dog was named Arête – we really loved the name. And on the day you were born our dog was hit by a car and killed. When we looked at you, we didn’t want you to be reminiscent us of the dog. Because then we’d turn out to be sad and hate you. So we named you Swinggcat instead.'”
In light of giving her the instant gratification of learning my name I’m using an open loop.
This builds unsettled tension inside her body, which becomes sexualized.
Her unconscious mind seeks to bring conclusion to this loop, inciting her to hang on to my every word.
Had I just told her my name from the get go, she might have judged, “This average looking guy probably lives a dull life,” and then moved onto another guy.
But by using an open loop, I had an opening to reveal that I come from cultured people, have a sense of humor, tell huge stories, and possess value (or Prizability).
Plus, due to the Zeigarnik effect, she will remember that I was the guy almost named Arête.
Unfortunately this article only scratches the exterior of open loops.
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